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Clock 3. November 2009 by Name withheld by request

First hand experience with depression and being a church staff member is my life. (BR, Oct. 24) I still have to take three different medications to help me control my mind and to keep me calm and bearable to my family and life. 

On top of this monster called depression I have experienced a stroke, and in the last month a heart attack. But I still go to my church each Sunday and put on the face of “I am glad to be alive” ... while in truth I think daily about death. My conclusion is that depression is an illness and I am under the care of a doctor who gives me 15 minutes about every 6-8 weeks. Tell me to think about my family, who loves me and cares for me, but in truth it is fear of my own pain that is keeping me from this. 

When I needed help from church sponsored counseling I was turned away because I could not afford to pay for the service. So I continue to fight my moods and pray sometimes for death to visit as the pain I have physically and emotionally is great. But what do I do?

Name withheld by request

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Stephen Trussell
If you need a friend call me. 252-589-2951. Stephen Trussell

posted Tuesday, November 03, 2009 10:33 PM | Report Abuse
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Patty Edwards Shaver

Here are some resources that may help:

Triangle Family Services - http://www.tfsnc.org/
Biblical Wellness - http://www.biblicalwellness.org/bwmHome.asp
American Association of Christian Counselors - http://www.aacc.net/resources/find-a-counselor/

If they can't help, ask them if they know of someone who can help you.

posted Wednesday, November 04, 2009 10:18 AM | Report Abuse
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Gene Scarborough
The difference between a Psychiatrist and Psychologist is that the first tends to maximize medication and minimize counseling. The latter maximized counseling and minimized medication. I believe the Psychologist is on a better track and far less dangerous than unpredicatable medications.

BUT there is a better way: find a little country store somewhere where people talk and tell jokes and lies to start and end the day. After a while you recognize we are all up a certain creek without a paddle in the touch economic days.

Knowing you are not alone makes life more bearable. Attending a SS class or church where everybody PRETENDS to be perfect and never shares honestly their hurts----is liable to kill you or cause you to kill yourself.


Why can't so called Christians simply be honest with one another??????? We are all hurting these days!

posted Wednesday, November 04, 2009 7:14 PM | Report Abuse
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Dr. James Willingham
I would think that medication in the case of severe depression might be advisable, especially if medical tests should suggest a chemical imbalance of some sort. Counseling is also helpful. Talking with others can be helpful, if they can be trusted. The community could be helpful. Unfortunately, there is not much community any more. Also a thorough examination to discover the causes/cause of the depression is mandated. PSTD might be involved....Interestingly, there is a new technique that has come into vogue in the last twenty years, eye desensitizatiom movemnt therapy. It is the number one treatment for PSTD for soldiers suffering from that problem approved by the VA, so I have heard and read in various sources. I once used it with startling results.Really good counselors are neither interested in over-medicating or of merely talking a client through a problem. Diagnostic techniques and the plethora of techniques that have developed over the past 50 years along with eclectic approaches that enable the counselor to design a therapy that fits the individuals situation suggest that more effective treatments are possible.

posted Friday, November 06, 2009 9:28 PM | Report Abuse
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Rev, David Peitz
Nobody knows how one feels unless they have the same promblem.Sadly that Christians are more out to be Doctors,than to be encouragers.May God forgive each one of us and put a burden on our heart for those that are out a job,and those that are mentally ill.My Mom was one of these that strugled all of Her life,but praise God she is resting in the arms of Jesus now.

posted Saturday, November 07, 2009 12:06 PM | Report Abuse
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Gene Scarborough
Has anyone noticed that, if a patient is restored to normalcy, the Dr. looses his income from that patient? Too many, so called, professionals are, sadly, in it for the money.

Good friends and faith are the best. A caring and sane Doctor could well be needed. A disturbed counselor who is in it because he is somewhat abnormal is like going to a Dr. who has tubercolosis: you simply had a cold, but when you got through the serious germs had entered your lungs because the Dr. coughed them into you!

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posted Tuesday, November 17, 2009 7:17 AM | Report Abuse
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Dr. James Willingham
I was one of the early Licensed Professional Counselors in North Carolina (my license number was in the 800 range), and as I gave most of the counseling at very low rates and even for free at times I could not maintain the license and the insurance requisite for a regular practice. However, I am still available to help any one who might desire conseling. It can be done under Christian Counseling guidelines (which are in some respects more rigorous in their ethical demands on the therapist than are the secular organizations - I am thinking of eternal claims). My number is 919-367-8518.My training is in eclectic psychotherapy which does not come at the client with a preset method of treatment, but, on the contrary, does a diagnostic investigation in order to assess the problem an then considers the available therapies and prepares a metatherapy designed to fit the individual's particular situation.

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